Web
Analytics
"What if I were ...." A problem-solving technique with tarot cards
Take your own advice

The anger spread

24743263Anger is an uncomfortable emotion, but not a negative one. Why do I say so? Because it teaches you much about yourself, your emotions, values, and coping methods.

Try this spread, and you will see what I mean. The spread is not about relationships with others but your relationship with yourself; your relationships with others will improve as you understand yourself better.

Spread 12 cards in 3 rows

  1. Why am I angry?
  2. What past experiences contribute to my feeling of anger?
  3. What hidden emotions contribute to my anger?
  4. What message is my anger trying to convey?
  5. How do I usually react to anger?
  6. How can I healthily express my anger without harming myself or others?
  7. What role can empathy play in releasing my anger right now?
  8. What role can forgiveness play in releasing my anger right now?
  9. What role does fear play in my anger?
  10. What boundaries do I need to set so that I'm protected against anger on the current issue?
  11. What actions can I take to prevent resentment from building up and causing anger?
  12. What lesson can I learn from this anger?

There you go! Let me know if you like this spread.

If you like this post, please share it or follow me on Facebook or Twitter (X).

 

Follow me on
Facebook
X (Twitter)

Comments

Feed You can follow this conversation by subscribing to the comment feed for this post.

Verify your Comment

Previewing your Comment

This is only a preview. Your comment has not yet been posted.

Working...
Your comment could not be posted. Error type:
Your comment has been saved. Comments are moderated and will not appear until approved by the author. Post another comment

The letters and numbers you entered did not match the image. Please try again.

As a final step before posting your comment, enter the letters and numbers you see in the image below. This prevents automated programs from posting comments.

Having trouble reading this image? View an alternate.

Working...

Post a comment

Comments are moderated, and will not appear until the author has approved them.

Your Information

(Name is required. Email address will not be displayed with the comment.)